ROLE OF THE GURU
Part 4
Samarpan in the guru-disciple relationship
There are two important moments of surrender in human life. One is when one surrenders to the lower instincts, to one's temptations and mental whims. That is the common type of surrender that most people make. Some people are afraid to surrender their ego because they fear they will lose their individuality. They are obviously not aware that they surrender their ego in so many other ways in life. The other moment of surrender is to the guru, the inner essence. If one is a true disciple, one surrenders everything to guru: emotions, brain, intellectuality, good and bad deeds, ego, vanity, past, present and future, security, fears and passions. Nothing belongs to the disciple; he gives everything of himself to his guru.
The outcome of the first surrender is pain, agony and frustration. The result of the second type of surrender is ananda, bliss. The devotee begins to feel that he is no longer alone. There is someone who has the most awe-inspiring love for him, not on a temporary basis, but for eternity, and one begins to feel that the two are somehow one. This realization of unity is the consequence of the disciple's surrender to guru. This losing of oneself is not like death; it is passing over the threshold into higher experience.
Where do guru and disciple unite? Not on a physical, emotional or mental plane, but in total darkness, when everything is finished, in the innermost chamber where everything is dead. There one does not hear a sound or see any form or vision. One is aware of nothing but the guru, shining like a lofty light. That is how guru and disciple must commune with each other, and for that the disciple's ego must be annihilated.
When salt or sugar are mixed with water, the duality ceases; there is no longer any separate identity. That has to be the relationship between God and devotee, and between the guru and his disciple. This is only possible when there is perfect communion between them on the spiritual plane. Body, mind and emotions are temporary; the spirit is eternal and the relationship with the guru should be based on the spirit. If there is anything between the disciple and guru it is between their spirits, not between their bodies or minds. It is not a physical, mental or emotional relationship. Initially the relationship is established on emotional grounds because people belong to the emotional plane. However, the disciple has to step out of the emotional relationship, otherwise the sobriety, tranquility, stability and homogeneity of the mind are lost.
A disciple's individual consciousness and the guru's individual consciousness have to merge into each other. This means that, except for the guru who is always with him, he is able to forget the whole world, whatever he is doing, thinking or feeling. That is communion on the spiritual plane. When one closes one's eyes, one sees the guru. When one cleans the bathroom, one feels him beside one. When one is planning some work, he is there in one's thoughts. One must have this advaita bhava, feeling of unity, with the guru.
The purpose of the guru-disciple relationship is to link with each other on a universal field, to be able to commune with each other. For this to happen the disciple must correlate his mental frequency with that of the guru. The individual mind is only a concept; it is nothing. There is no individual mind, only the universal mind. The universal mind is able to unite with every mind at any time and in any place. It is not a matter of transmission, but of communion and inter-union. Gurus have developed the universal mind, so they can operate anywhere. Every individual is a part of the universal mind, and when he is able to remove the ego, the barrier between him and guru, him and God, the individual and his inner essence, then the guru can communicate with him from any point because the two have the same mind. This has to be understood properly. It requires infinite patience on the part of the guru and infinite patience on the part of the disciple. Unless one has great faith and understanding and a sort of enlightenment within oneself, the communion cannot be established.
The relationship between guru and disciple is linked by faith. If there is no faith, there is no relationship. The guru is the reflection of the disciple's faith. If the faith of the disciple diminishes, he will see less of it reflecting from the guru. Therefore, to an ordinary disciple the guru plays the role of a kind mother, but shows his real nature only to disciples who have faith, for they are composed of a different material and can withstand the sharp chisel that cuts a beautiful form from a crude piece of wood.
It is to reaffirm the faith that exists in one's nature that emphasis has been placed on the guru-disciple relationship. This relationship is needed to fulfil the sublime aspect of life, and yet it is so difficult to maintain. Most disciples stay with the guru for a few years until they find some fault in him, and then they decide he is not their guru. This crisis occurs in a disciple's life when there is no faith. If the faith of the disciple is strong, the reflection from the guru will be very strong. The personality of the guru is the image of the faith of the disciple. Therefore, Mirabai has also said:
Now I have fallen in love with the guru's feet.
I want nothing but the shelter of his sacred feet.
The illusory world has now become a dream.
For me the ocean of the world has dried up.
Now there is no anxiety to cross it.
The lord of Mira is the clever Krishna,
And she is hopeful of the guru's refuge alone.
If the disciple's faith is unshakeable and his belief is deep and strong, the guru's personality will dazzle him. Faith can be protected and developed by maintaining a consistent, intimate, indivisible relationship with the guru. For a very long time they live close to each other, until the disciple transcends the barriers of body and mind, until he transcends the nature of matter, and is able to communicate with the guru on an inner level. He develops intense awareness, total awareness, non-dual awareness of the guru on the spiritual plane. In the experience of samarpan in the guru-disciple relationship, the lower sphere of the mind is paralyzed so that the higher sphere becomes sensitive. When that happens, guru feels one with the disciple and sees no difference.
In spiritual life, transcendental knowledge is only given to a disciple whose mind has lost every point of worldly and lower sensitivity, which is unreceptive to lower reflexes, but open to higher ones. The disciple begins to hear his guru's instructions in the unconscious when in deep meditation. Thus, the guru takes him beyond the dead end of the void which the disciple is stuck and shows him the eternal light. The guru permeates the disciple's consciousness through and through, even if he does not want to. For the guru loves the disciple too. When a guru loves his disciple, he is always aware of him, always thinking about him; he suffers from a disciple neurosis. When the disciple loves the guru so much that he can think of nothing else, he has a guru neurosis. This is the first and last requirement for the attainment of samarpan. It is the strongest form of shakti. This awareness is love and it is a very powerful link.
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